The Harm in Keeping Score!!!

Theres a lot of randomness on this blog...but it reflects all of the information, thoughts etc that fly through our brains everyday.

So, Lately I've been having a similar conversation with a few different people, discussing people's many "faces" and how people expose those faces to you depending on what you can and can't do for them. If you can help someone they are suddenly your new BFF! but if you need someone's help on something...well...its crickets from that very same person. Not even trying to be slick with it.
As my good friend Tosh recently said...you have to stop keeping score. You have to let that go. Even though it may SEEM like someone SHOULD do something for you, because they're your peoples and you would (of course) do this for them...don't think that that's what they are thinking. You can only speak for yourself....so don't even attempt to speak on anyone else's behalf. Once you let that idea go of what SHOULD be..and focus on what IS, you will feel much lighter and you'll realize in the end, there's a reason why you needed to see this about that person anyway.
People talk about the fakeness, the hollywoodness the phoniness, the opportunist out there...all the time...but know that this has always existed..and it's not going anywhere. Don't let that inform how YOU move and operate!
Stop keeping score...!!! You will be a bitter person and and bitter is never a good look! It's just not very becoming....!